Saturday, August 2, 2014
A new begining
my new site is: omyogaandmassage.wordpress.com
This site is going to act more as a site then a blog about myself and my experiences. I hope you follow my new site and maybe even book yourself for massage or come visit my class!
Stephanie
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
Bringing love and support naturally
At some point we stop asking these questions, at which time we can become grateful for those lessons learned, for those difficult times. And although it would've been nicer if we never had to go through those moments, but it creates this maturity, a wiseness. For me, I think it's important to share those experiences, to be open about them. Because we are never alone and my experiences are always somebody else's. Generally not exactly the same, but in some way similar. And by sharing, it creates connections, so that the burden is no longer on their shoulders alone. You do this so that they can have the time to develop their own strength. It is in that time we are then able to heal, and healing can only occur with space.
And finally one day they too will be able to help pass this same love and support to those that they love and care for.
Om Shanti.
Monday, June 10, 2013
Developing an intensive
I have finally commited to developing an intensive. Ideally, I'll be running it in August, but that's dependent on finding a studio to use.
I have my concept. Now to fine tune it so I can start advertising and finding people who would be interested. I'm really excited.
Sneak peak:
- a 2 days a week practice, to experience progression and consistency
- for those who want to reignite their own practice
- for those who want more then the standard studio offering (more pranayama, meditation, and japa/chanting, asana workshops)
- for those who have thought about taking a T.T. but are unsure or don't want the commitment if they don't plan to ever teach
Sounds interesting? Stay tuned. Or leave a message with suggestions on what you would like to learn if you had the opportunity to join. Update: join my Facebook Event Page.
Namaste my friends.
Monday, May 27, 2013
Sunday, May 26, 2013
And then there was yoga for the rest of us
Today I had the honor of hosting a yoga class for one of our yoga greats in North America, Sage Rountree. When I was asked to do this for Mountain Equipment co-op, not only did I feel surpised and excited, but I also felt the stress off being responsible for 30 bodies and their sense of peace. I didn't know if I could create the calm needed for a yoga class, especially in the midst of the chaos of a large store that even putting noise aside, the shear number of things too look at and distract you with! But I suppose it's in the midst of chaos that we need to find sanctuary the most.
What a great learning experience to have been able to host this event. To have been able to share my own love of yoga to the people in Vancouver through Sage. Who was able to bring such knowledge and experience for different athletes who want to practice yoga in a way that would be beneficial to their own training while respecting their bodies abilities.
This experience has taught me that you can create a sacred space no matter where you are. And even though I had things for the altar like flowers, a singing bowl and even a statue of Shiva. I even managed to clear enough space so that everyone was able to lay their mats comfortably. But it is, I realized, the action of everyone coming together and the subtle vibrations we all create together when we come together as a community.
Namaste
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Inherent Intuition. or is it?
Yoga is amazing because it is a reflection of our lives, we often see things in our practice that we might not have noticed off the mat. For instance judgement, judging ourselves, the way we might look or our ability to "perform" that day, especially when compared to that girl in the corner! We can sit in our seat and take the time to notice this behaviour and work towards correcting it, filling it with love, compassion, forgiveness. And again each day is different, there are good ones and bad ones. But out in the "world" judging ourselves in the mirror, to the girl walking down the street walking down the street in her Jimmy Choos... That might just seem like any other day!
So what does this mean to our practice? Well we aren't always reminding ourselves to listen to our bodies and listening to what it has to say that day. We have these goals about our physical practice that says, I want to do camel pose like the pictures, camel pose is not just standing on my knees opening my heart, I'm not going anywhere. I want to be looking behind me, I want to have my hands on my ankles, isn't the saying, "no pain, no gain"?
Expect pain, is not good, it is not a badge of honour. It is a very strong signal telling you enough. It is your intuition saying your body is not ready for that deep of a back bend.
So why do we not listen to our intuition if it is natural if it is part of our human nature to have this ability? Because, we as a culture, have desensitized ourselves away from intuition, developing doubt, developing a system that relies on "facts", on statistics, on an ideal of the way everyone should be. So our ability to listen has been dampened, has been questioned from a young age, to the point that we don't even know what our intuition is telling us.
How do we place more value on our intuition, how do we know what our intuition even sounds or feels like?
Start here:
- Close your eyes (after you finish reading this of course!). begin by clearing out your thoughts, your lists of nagging things to do, of people you need to call or check in with, of your own judgements of how you should feel. Find the silence where it is simply just you and the sound of your breath.
- Next, very clearly ask yourself overall on a scale of 1-5, how are you? Then do a check, starting with your feet, you can use your hands to start, but work to simply experiencing those moments in silence and stillness. start at your feet, how do they feel? your legs, your knees? your hips? lower back? your abdomen and digestive system? your lower ribs? your chest, your shoulders, your hands, wrists, arms? your neck, your jaw, tongue, even your teeth? your eyes, your head? even your mind?
- And again ask yourself, how do you feel? Do you actually feel different once you became aware of your entire body? Do you have a better sense of your being?
- Now finally, ask yourself, if you were to practice yoga, or do a presentation, would you hold this same awareness, would you listen more closely to your needs?
It's not easy, and even still you might start your activity with conviction and awareness, but then you get lost in the task and habit and next thing you know and your somewhere you don't necessarily want to be. In a headstand. You don't need to be in that headstand. So come down, sit in lotus and just breath. Ground yourself.
We are all waiting there for you!
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Learning to Budget like a Yogi
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Learning and Teaching at once!
There are some of the questions that I expected to face: Do they like me? Did they come back for another class because they liked my class? Am I a good teacher?
The one's I had never thought of before were: Are they giving feedback to my peers or supervisors? Will I get this feedback? (I actually want feedback, the good and the ugly!) How do I connect with my students? - Are they "my" students?
Both lists are endless, fortunately I haven't gotten lost in these questions and wonderings, but I do visit a couple of them each week. But my biggest questions surround figuring out my relationship with the studio. In my other life I also work with the public, in fact retail. The culture is: give amazing service whether they have a membership or are buying something, they will always come back for more of the lovin'! So it is naturally in my dialogue to not only sell our product and our culture but for that person who wants to see everything outside first I am more then happy to help and tell them about the different great places in the city. They will go there, check it out, develop a relationship and hopefully decide to come back, because hopefully we will always be more awesome, better people, better prices, and better product overall. And I honestly think 9 out of 10 times, it works. But can I do that to the studio, or is that frowned upon? I completely believe that no matter what, if you show someone a good time, and they groove with you, they will come back, especially if you remind them of that!
But most of this is superficial, and I only need to remind myself, if there is a problem or if they appreciate me, I will find out. Just like I did last weekend when I got called to sub a class last minute. At the end I had several of the students approach me and thank me for a great class. What I really appreciated was being thanked for not only being a good teacher, but for the poses or design of the class, being able to create a multi-level class. Because Asana class IS fun and there is a lot to learn when you push yourself even a little.
So my piece of advice? Talk to your teacher, we are all learning together! Tell them what you liked, what you didn't like. And teachers, just like when your practicing on the mat, keep an open heart, don't ask to many questions, be mindful of what your doing, who is in front of you and don't forget to have fun!
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Fall Cleaning and Maintenance
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
A look backwards, a step forward, time to sit in the present
I have been disconnected and loving it. But I'm now refreshed and ready to be back! And best of all, I am armed with new inspiration and lots of stories to tell!
There are no more holidays in my near future, but still lots of celebrations left! I consider fall to be my celebration season and this year I'm excited to kick it off with my 1 year wedding anniversary to my husband and best friend! And best of all it is now less then a week away!
Fall to me has always been the time of year that is the beginning of something new, something like my own personal New Years! Even though I have been out of school for nearly a decade I have not been able to shake it!
So it's always neat for me to look at my year since, since I'm often filled with seated enjoyment thinking about the past moments and the setting of my future goals. But it is what I feel at this moment in the year that make it special, I am simply sitting between an end and a beginning, a past and a future. That leaves me in the present!
Taking snapshot highlights, the pretty and the not so, starting around now, this is my year in review:
1. Big deal, I got married! Yeah, perhaps a little ground crashing! I won't get into it, (you can read enough stories on the internet!) but I will say this: Hosting a wedding was the most rewarding, most stressful, most surprising thing that I have ever done and experienced. To come from a home that is rather broken and conventionally different, to feel people around me, people I wouldn't expect, to come up and help and be there and show me such love was so amazing and shocking all at once. At times it felt so unreal, I couldn't believe it was true. And it was here that I began to understand some of the true essence of what it means to live in a yogic life. Even if you aren't a "yogi".
2. I came to realize and accept that I suffer from SADs and it hits me hard in October and November, and it can be the most debilitating experience. This coming year armed with this acceptance, I am making it my mission to not let SADs take over my life for 2.5 months. And with the start of September I will be beginning a daily dose of Vitamin D. That and teaching yoga and having a direction with focus will help keep the spiral in check! Maybe even through in a little R&R retreat or meditation retreat and I think I will be rocking this West Coast!
3. Although this is old news for me, Christmas can do wonders for my spirit, probably because it is my favourite holiday! So December is when I snapped myself out of my slump, started practicing yoga and began making plans to jump start my career as a yoga teacher.
4. Okay things are rolling, doing a little number crunching, financially survived christmas, mmm I always wanted to go to Wanderlust in California! Baby, here I come, this is happening, chocolate chip cookies, yoga donations, cupcakes and selling my couch. Oh wait, Wanderlust is coming to Whistler?
5. I technically got hired at a yoga studio. Which, although I never worked a class there, was a huge ego boost!
6. Starting in January for 6 months straight I taught two yoga classes a week, which was so much fun and so rewarding to build that kind of relationship, and to really experience how much your students can actually teach you! And I always thought it was funny when people told me that I have a "yoga voice"at work. People new I was happy and calm then!
7. I enrolled in my first ever month long yoga intensive class. It was so great to go to the same teacher (someone I have a lot of respect for and have studied with previously) twice a week and to get to do a book project... It was nice to feel like I was part of a kula again, even if only for a month.
8. Passed my "L" Driving, although I still have a fair share of restrictions on my driving, I can now drive by myself! I'm 28 and I can finally legally drive!
9. Off to Wanderlust California (thank goodness I passed my test, not sure I would have made it!). 6 months of hard work, great saving skills, and a friend to join me for the ride, and a very long 2 days of driving I have arrived in Squaw Valley/ Lake Tahoe region. And there are no showers. Next to these perfect yogis I felt so dirty! Being stuck in a car for two days with some really messed up sleeping and coming to this pristine and perfect experience I felt dirty! Blah! After 5 days of feeling this way I finally muster the energy to spend some time at highcamp (that is over 8,000 ft!) and chill in the hot tub and get me spic and span!
10. Over these two week I manage to have my mind blown over and over and over again. California, the coast, and the Oregon coast are magical! There will be more on this later!
12. Worst mistake ever, come back to work for three days between holidays. So unfocused and excited to not be there! Hah, I do love my day job!
13. Family.... the good the bad the ugly. But still worth every minute of it. My Aunt and Uncle are the greatest people ever and I know they will always be there!
14. Happy to be back at work. Happy to have a schedule. Happy to have responsibility. Oh wait, I'm going to Whistler in a week! Yay!
15. Wanderlust Whistler, lets see what you can do in Canada! Volunteering for Wanderlust Whistler was the best way to experience the festival, especially when you no longer have any savings. And a possible highlight has getting to hang with two fabulous and fat cats!
16. Oh yeah! My teaching is going public! Remember when I got hired at a studio 6 months ago? Well they gave me a class to teach starting in September and I'm getting trained to work the space! I couldn't be in a better spot, I have had a summer of inspiration and a year of real experience!
17. And look at that, here we are, moving into my full circle of a year! I knew this year was great, but I could never have said it was going to be like this! And to think I have another year ahead of me with lessons learned, new experiences and a career in yoga that is really beginning. I can't wait to jump back and get started again! Just two weeks to go!
Monday, June 11, 2012
Yoga with the Belugas
Here in Vancouver, the Vancouver Aquarium hosted the best World Ocean's Day Celebration! They organizing with Ocean Wise (this is the group that advises what fish are good to eat and which are endangered) the first ever Yoga with the Belugas! And even better yet, this practice was led by none other then Ocean loving surfer-yogi Eoin Finn!
When my husband showed me this event, I immediately latched on and decided that I had no other choice then to fork over the cash and go! Not only were all of the proceeds going to helping protect our oceans and environment but when will I possibly ever get to have this experience ever again???
Well, it was well worth it! There were countless times that you would look up and there would be this incredible creature brushing up against the window curiously looking in on us. It was such a surreal experience to be witness to!
Unfortunately on my way out the door, I grabbed the wrong bag, I grabbed the bag I had unpacked which had only some random things that I did not want for the day! So of course I showed up with no camera and no video camera, only my iPhone! Although the quality isn't superb, this clip I captured really caught the essence of the morning. You could tell there was a connection occurring with our event, the music and the belugas. You could see through music what they enjoyed and the music that they didn't understand. This song seemed to be one of their favourites, in their small entrapment, it looked as though they were dancing!
Enjoy!
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Monday, May 14, 2012
I will learn grasshopper arm balance
...Now this, is so logical! I'm kind of ashamed I didn't think of it on my own. I will be trying it first thing tomorrow!
**Update: so I tried this, oh man do my hips need some more deep stretching, pigeon and thread the needle, you and I are going to become BEST friends over the next few weeks!
Flowing Through Grass Hopper from Elinore Cohen on Vimeo.
Romantic Buddha Tale
~ Wake Up and Cook: kitchen Buddhism in Words and Recipes; from a Burmese manuscript adapted and translated by Michael Edwards
1st.
The new book by Sage Rountree titled The RUNNER'S Guide to Yoga suddenly was in front of me and so it was only moments before I released it from it's shrink wrap (yes... not so nice packaging! yikes!). I have gone from front to back. I will properly review this later with all of it's pro's and con's. But I will simply state she has grown as a yogi and book writer since her other book, "The Athlete's Guide to Yoga". Lots of great running specific poses, tips to becoming a better runner, not just in the physical training but in the mental capacity and the balance of training and life.
2nd.
Lululemon must have heard me calling. That and well all of their running races are happening across North America! But let us pretend that they were weighing in on my needs too! They have come up with a simple blog post providing 5 quick poses to practice before beginning your run to help limber you up for those 10 kilometres and help balance and strengthen your muscles to prevent injury.
Go and visit Lululemon's blog here and try these before your next run and see how it changes the way you move!
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Teacher Profile
Love and kindness,
Stephanie
Events and Opportunities
These last two month have been pretty busy and exciting in my world of yoga. I have been making plans, picking up classes and making sure I have enough money to follow through with all of these plans!
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Friday, March 23, 2012
Yoga and the sports that we do (and a few poses to boot!)
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Broga or Yoga for a Man's body
I taught my first all men's yoga class today. Regularly speaking, this class is not a men's only event, and I would say that as a general rule, the women outnumber the men. And let's face it, that's what the community of yoga in North America looks like. A 2008 US statistic was published by "Yoga in America Study" stating that over 70% of yoga practitioners were female. So, as you might understand, I felt a glint of happiness and excitement that I am able to cultivate a practice in these men so that they will consistently come back and perhaps encourage more men that its a good idea to join the practice.
I had so much fun and they enjoyed the class so much, that it got my brain wheels turning. "Maybe this could be the first class I market myself for. Create a small class environment that is specifically for men, or those (I never want to be exclusive!) who are in need of that extra TLC in certain areas but have the brute strength in others." Oh the possibilities were tantalizing!
But then later, I remembered the honour that I received. Putting my business brain to the side, so I could enjoy the pleasures of teaching a class where each student is finding something they need and something that keeps them coming back for more.
I am truly blessed to be able to teach yoga and I look forward to the day when all I have to do is teach and share what I love.





